This is a safe place. You can feel and gush all of your feelings out.
BUT…
Don’t you hate when someone reenters a mutual friends life & all of a sudden they’re okay now and now you’re suppose to forgive them?
I Absolutely HATE this . I see when it happens, and begin guessing what’s going to happen next.
It’s like oh so the both of you are cool now, great, but don’t bring that BS over here.
I really dislike it when you confide in someone just for them to act like none of those things happened to you, and bygones should be bygones…
Well consider yourself cut off then, because you’re just as bad as the narcissist.
Why is it when things go smooth for the other party they feel as if you have to hop on the forgiveness wagon. Well guess what, you can forgive and still leave them alone.
They already showed you who they are, or what they can turn into, why would I want to be a apart of that again? Why can’t I just forgive and move on?
Some people fail to realize you can still be afraid after you have healed parts of yourself. You can still not like a person even if you love them.
You don’t heal to make things go away, you heal so you can still live your life after your experience.
BUT…
It doesn’t mean forgive and jump back into their dramatic ass lives.
The problem never goes away, those thoughts, and those triggers will come back from time to time, and that doesn’t take away the pain they’ve already caused.
Why is it hard for some people to understand that?
And yet they will try to make it seem as if you’re being dramatic when it was their drama that caused you harm.
Things become better for them, so automatically all the troubles are gone….
NOT!
Just because you’ve found peace with them doesn’t have anything to do with me…
Your individual relationships with them doesn’t mean it’ll be the same for the rest of us. Relationships don’t make or break your own relationship with the person, nor validates it’s significance….
We’ll see who they turn into once you break one of their rules…
But it doesn’t mean I have to be a part of it, or be a part of THEM.
Affirmation
My healing journey is not to satisfy or cater to you. I’m focusing on my growth and that doesn’t involve going backwards.
Getting My Mojo Back! 