I know I’m NOT the only one who’s recognized this, but hear me out…
A lot of us have reasons why we use apps. To be honest, it seems convenient for us single people.
The modern world these days seem to work less and less on emotions. It focuses more on gain. This makes it hard for us empaths and easier for the users and abusers.
Overtime, I’ve learned to express less and less about myself, because it seems no one genuinely cares. They only care enough to use different things against you.
You have to learn to boundary up, and not take things personally when their mask finally comes off.
Here’s a Podcast ranting about how people abuse these dating apps. This is to bring awareness and also share experiences.