Why do some of us assume we have to be in someone’s life after you forgive them?

What do you think? Are we holding a grudge? Or are we setting boundaries for them, and for ourselves?

If it’s too complicated, then maybe holding a boundary (see what I did there) is necessary.

There’s nothing wrong with your decision. You know what’s best, even if it’s not “best” for the other party.

What do you do?

There’s nothing much you can do, what is done is done, should you go back after all of that. NO!

Follow your gut, even if it doesn’t make sense to anyone else.

I thought too much about how things could go, good or bad, and sadly it always ends badly.

This is because of dealing with someone who is unstable, or maybe the situation no longer aligns with where you’re going. Everything is always on top until things don’t go their way. But should you give in even though you already know how it’s going to end?

What if you’ve given them too many chances?

Why give another? Just so it can end the same way as it did before?

When people show you who they are, or what they can turn into, believe all of it. It doesn’t matter what anyone else says, or what your imagination wants them to be.

Accept and exit left.

Forgiveness is never easy, but it is quite simple. You forgive and decide rather or not you want to be in that persons life.

What does forgiveness mean to you? And do you hold the same amount of forgiveness for everybody?

What about for yourself, is there something you need to forgive yourself for?

Please check out my YouTube video, or my Podcast, on Meditation for Forgiveness.

Would you like to practice with me?