This includes yours too!
The signs are right in front of us, but like a test, if you don’t pay attention in class or study, you’re going to miss the answers.
Pay attention to the signs that are given to you.
Sometimes we ignore the signs because we want to give others the benefit of a doubt, but that can also be our red flag.
Sometimes we see the person WE want to see, and not the actual person that’s being presented.
That can also be a red flag.
The image and expectations puts a filter over the person.
They are not superman or superwoman, they are human, and some ain’t even super at being that….
You have to recognize the red flags you present because we all have them.
We are not perfect.
Ask yourself are the red flags tolerable, harmful, or are they toxic.
How can we work on ourselves if we’re too busy being distracted by a fantasy?
Leave that for the movies!
Moj0